but I've never made any personal insults to or belittled others. If I disagree with someone, I'd simply offer my arguments as to why. I'm also not entitled because I've already accepted the fact that I will probably never see the J-20 do a high alpha maneuver. If you disagree about the role of the J-20, I'm happy to hear your reasons
The fact that you needed to "accept the fact" that you will never see it, is exactly an example of entitlement.
Instead, you should have not expected to see it or "want" to see it in the first place.
As for "personal insults" or "belittling others" --- that is correct, but your post in #4727 which started this discussion chain was not only juvenile but also conveyed entitlement and unreasonable expectations.
Everyone in the last page or so has been trying to explain to you the fundamentals of your incorrect view on PLA watching from first principles.
This isn't necessarily your fault, because you may be relatively new to PLA watching and all that.
Here are the relevant points that are useful for you to accept and internalize:
1) The PLA is generally conservative with what they show at flight displays/airshows -- that is not unique to J-20, but also is the case for in service J-10s, Flankers, and so on. When there are exceptional aircraft or testbeds like the J-10B TVC, maneuvers might be done in a manner which look "impressive" specifically to display subsystems that are unique and not able to be displayed in any other way (TVC being the subsystem in this case)
2) As with all PLA matters, they are generally conservative in what they show to the public overall in terms of all capabilities (not only kinematic performance, but weapons, EW, orbat etc).
3) Low speed, "high alpha" air show displays like what you described are not representative of the maneuvers that high kinematic performance, modern BFM would look like.
4) It is okay to want to see high alpha maneuvers because you think they look pretty or exciting, but you also need to accept that it has no bearing on relevant BFM or aircraft role, and it also means accepting that you are treating this as a spectator sport.