I hope for your sake that you're not equating that because some of your BrahMos hit runways and a quarter of a hangar that meant the HQ-9P completely failed, given the large barrage of BrahMos all it means is that Pakistan needs more HQ-9Ps, not that the HQ-9P didn't work. I'm even using Indian evidence here, all that is shown is that indeed some runways and a quarter of a hangar were struck and damaged, while you lost 7 jets.
It is India echo chamber narratives they work each other up with and begin fantasy spinning. Every single time this happens with India.
They now convinced themselves they have the world's best strike ability, they convinced themselves Chinese AD doesn't work at all. Brahmos is the best and they've only lost a few fighters due to rules of engagement only. Totally not because of anything else. They also convinced themselves that they managed to shoot down at least 6 Pakistani fighters despite zero evidence.
Meanwhile Pakistan has presented plenty of visual evidence in videos and photos of IAF Mig-29, Su-30, Mirage 2000 and Rafale
s shot down with wrecks on Indian side. Pakistan also showed and admitted to being hit by Indian suicide drones and missiles. Pakistan itself also launched some limited ground strikes on India which also has footage. Largely ignored by Indians.
Now Indians, unhappy with the outcomes, begin spinning wild stories and perpetuating them online. Placating their feelings and hoping to convince the world they aren't incompetent. They tie their nation's prosperity to these "wars of perception" and so if you discuss this stuff with a Jai Hind, you'll never hear the end of it.
They will always argue back and try to get the last word in with their narrative. It's because most of them have nothing else or better to do. It's pointless anyway. Pakistan will slap India back and keep it under its foot. Their strategy is to create fantasies for the world to buy and try to work at it behind the scenes. The problem with the strategy is without a proper top down recognition of reality and weaknesses, there is not quite as much comprehensive nation wide motivation to do better. Too many buy into the fantasies and it creates an atmosphere of complacency because "it's good enough" and "we're strong enough". There's not enough shame, dissatisfaction and truth sharing culture there. The whole culture is about finessing one another.
Extended discussions with these types are completely pointless. Point out the main facts on the ground and move along. If they continue, can only play around with them. You're basically ending up arguing with someone who has the intelligence and maturity of a tantrum child - Some Indians literally claim they have a superior car industry compared to China. That they produce superior technology overall. It's basically the same as their old claim of the Tejas being superior to the J-20. You can't convince someone like that or have a genuine dialogue.