You are sorry to hear about abuse? Like you were sorry about George Floyd & thousands before him? You are always sorry for something.Sounds like you might have been a victim of child abuse when you were younger, sorry to hear that.
I thought abusing is one category of freedom of expression guaranted by constitution of United States not of America.
Specializing in discipline is considered abuse in USA? That's not surprising though. I mean, we can pretty much figure that out watching drama of US military business company for last couple of decades. Dudes really like to act tough in front of blindfolded & handcuffed peoples.