What they don't realise is that hosting American forces means that they are a party to the war. For many years the world has watched US troops attack countries using bases located in third countries. These third countries have never faced any consequences for being complicit in crimes. China needs to explain to the Philippines that hosting American forces that then attack China means that they are not a neutral country anymore and would be at war with China.I find it doubtful that Philippines in its current form will ever attack China. While Japan and even SK (despite the NK issue) have fairly impressive forces, Philippines just doesn't have anything to hold against a Chinese counterattack.
If the Philippines joins an American invasion, that would essentially force America to devote a lot of forces solely to babysit them and delay Chinese actions against their undefended rear lines. While Philippines does provide a good geographical staging ground for invasion, the fact that US forces would be split could outweigh or even far worsen American chances.
China should further explain to the Philippines what it means to be at war with China. They will certainly have to lose some territory and potentially come under short term occupation like Japan post WW2.
I think they simply don't know about these risks and require education