Before the modern era and the concept of a nation state, people were united not by polity but as a tribal entity even within empires, that's why medieval laws were sometimes religious and ethnic specific.All of this would be possibe if the US is a nation state. But in reality, the US is just a loose confederation of different tribes with different interests. People immigrate to the US because it is the wealthies country in the world, not because they love the country and would sacrifice themselves to "make America great again". They'll just leave for another one when America is not so great.
This is why I don't see the US can come up with any generation-length plan, because they aren't even sure they are still American after a couple of generations. Plan for now, and if it didn't work out then screw you losers, I'm off the boat.
In the modern era, this habit has not changed in terms of in-group, out-group dynamics. You see this when a englishman can move to the United States and receive promotions and access that a 3rd generation Chinese American would never receive. Despite its advertisement of equality before the law and society, the United States is extremely race conscious and tribal identities are much more entrenched than say, Australia.
In fact, i remember when the Ukraine war started, many American commentators seemed more upset that this was happening to a white people country as opposed to a more acceptable conflict in the Taiwan Strait. For that reason, the War Party in the US is framing the Taiwan issue as a 'all of society' conflict, where China has to lose if you, Joe American want to enjoy your privileges around the world.