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bajingan

Senior Member
Sorry if my post, offended anyone, I just wanted to tell someone what happened to me yesterday and to remain completely anonymous. I couldn't possibly tell other people I knew about this and to other internet forums because i am easily identifiable due to my profession.
Only this site that I am sure that none of my friends or people I knew are a member.

I am sorry to hear what happened to you jeffhead, you are so lucky to have a good and caring wife, just like what Socrates said "By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher" but for me marriage does not make sense, by nature men brain are not designed to be loyal to just one partner. I would suggest anyone who is still single to never get married.
 

Equation

Lieutenant General
Sorry if my post, offended anyone, I just wanted to tell someone what happened to me yesterday and to remain completely anonymous. I couldn't possibly tell other people I knew about this and to other internet forums because i am easily identifiable due to my profession.
Only this site that I am sure that none of my friends or people I knew are a member.

I am sorry to hear what happened to you jeffhead, you are so lucky to have a good and caring wife, just like what Socrates said "By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher" but for me marriage does not make sense, by nature men brain are not designed to be loyal to just one partner. I would suggest anyone who is still single to never get married.

I do agreed with you in some part that marriage is not for all men(as well as women). But that's the hormone speaking, that's fine for some men to be unwed and but not for others. Marriage is more than just sex and getting along by living together with a spouse. It can be a deep spiritual experience of love and affection that goes beyond lust of the body. No it doesn't happen for everybody, we each have our own path to go on.:);)
 

vesicles

Colonel
I am sorry to hear what happened to you jeffhead, you are so lucky to have a good and caring wife, just like what Socrates said "By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher" but for me marriage does not make sense, by nature men brain are not designed to be loyal to just one partner. I would suggest anyone who is still single to never get married.

Well, first of all, I do agree that marriage is a personal choice. If you decide to stay unmarried, I'm happy for whatever choice you have made.

With that said, I strongly disagree that you blame it on man's brain or other physiological factors. There is absolutely nothing general in male physiology that makes certain men unfaithful. It's more environmental. By that, I mean some men/women have been influenced by some events in their lives, which tend to shape their view on relationships. For instance, men/women coming from divorced families are more likely to become unfaithful and eventually divorce.

Statistically speaking, men and women have the same probability to become unfaithful. So don't make excuses for your mistakes.
 

B.I.B.

Captain
for me marriage does not make sense, by nature men brain are not designed to be loyal to just one partner. I would suggest anyone who is still single to never get married.

I'm in total agreement with you plus my last girlfriend said I was too immature.

My father once had a talk with me where he acknowledged that I had more girlfriends then there are weeks in a year.He does not mind me being a naughty boy and like to splash it around, but i should also think about the time when I'm old and lonely.
 

Jeff Head

General
Registered Member
What follows in this post and the next, are some pictures of late Autumn that I took here in the SW Idaho area on Saturday, December 5, 2015 of the scenery and with my dog.

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Fields, homes, and the Boise Range in the background

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Our Black Lab/German Short Hair Pointer mix with her nose to the ground in the foothills.

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The South Side irrigation canal road with the Boise range in the back ground.

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One of the many tunnels along the irrigation canal, built by the US Bureau of Reclamation 80 years ago to improve the older canal.

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An old school house on the north side of the valley
 

Jeff Head

General
Registered Member
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The Payette River valley, with the river running across the photo in the middle, west of Emmett, ID.

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Our Black Lab/German Short Hair Pointer mix, sitting obediently

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A Hay Barn with the Boise Range, and Shafer Butte (to the left) in the background.

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A farm with Squaw Butte in the background.

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Crown Point towering above the Payette Valley in the foothills.
 

Air Force Brat

Brigadier
Super Moderator
Just got my U.S. Passport through the mail! Getting it was a long and arduous process.
Where ya goin ace?
Now that you have your Masters, I would like to recommend that you take a few flying lessons when conditions allow, it will expand your horizons so to speak, and it might be a pastime that you have some natural affection for? Even if you decide not to go after your license, it will be an opportunity to put some of our discussions into the realm of reality-and that's very kool when it comes to flying!

please pray for our old Sailor Man, he is back in the hospital with another "cardiac event" , this comes on top of a broken hip and surgery a year ago, three strokes and a prior "cardiac event". He's a wonderful guy that looks to meet his Lord very soon unless things turn around. He was there for the invasion of Okinawa in WWII, on the USS Drew
 
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Jeff Head

General
Registered Member
Just got my U.S. Passport through the mail! Getting it was a long and arduous process.
Congrats siege!

Welcome to the "club," (so to speak) and may it be a great tool for you in visiting places on earth, and in allowing your progress in your chosen field, and path in life.

I know it is not an easy thing to come by and takes a lot of work, even much more so for those who go through the process to become citizens who were not born as such.
 

Jeff Head

General
Registered Member
Where ya goin ace?
Now that you have your Masters, I would like to recommend that you take a few flying lessons when conditions allow, it will expand your horizons so to speak, and it might be a pastime that you have some natural affection for? Even if you decide not to go after your license, it will be an opportunity to put some of our discussions into the realm of reality-and that's very kool when it comes to flying!

please pray for our old Sailor Man, he is back in the hospital with another "cardiac event" , this comes on top of a broken hip and surgery a year ago, three strokes and a prior "cardiac event". He's a wonderful guy that looks to meet his Lord very soon unless things turn around. He was there for the invasion of Okinawa in WWII, on the USS Drew
Prayers up!

Just to ensure that everyone is aware, we are talking about your relative here, right...not popeye.

Here on the forum, the "old Sailor Man," would be considered by most to be Popeye.
 
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