This just illustrates the current power disparity between the west and PRC. Hk and mainland elites willingly send their children to foreign educations because western educations have advantages in certain technical areas as well as future job prospects. In the hopes of maximizing their children's chances of getting into top western universities, many young kids were sent before they developed the proper worldviews. Hence, they are susceptible to anti Chinese media as well as anti Chinese lecturers.I disagree.
Foreign influenced education is the biggest part of the problem. When majority of the civil servants and elites sent their children at the age of eight to British schools, do you think these kids would be loyal to China and Hong Kong. After a few decades and hundreds of thousands of these youngsters been educated in UK and come back to HK, many of them become lawyers, doctors, accountants, civil servants, politicians, businessmen. What do you think, would happen to the Hong Kong society.
Same thing with the mainland Chinese, during the early days of the pandemic, those British educated kids were chartered back to mainland and given special privileges. Do you think these kids would grow up and have positive views of China.
From my personal experience of Chinese international students, those who completed high school in China are much less likely to be brainwashed. And you are absolutely right, the western worship problem is not exclusive to hongkongers, many mainland elites are having the same issue which could create an even bigger problem in the future.
My position is that the preferential treatments create a fertile environment for superiority complex and tribalism to develop and multiple in hongkong. These sentiments made integration much more difficult. During the protest, many wanted to protect hongkong's culture and view mainlanders as locusts, or threats to their way of life. It provides an easy avenue for foreign influenced media to sow division. Propaganda catering to existing beliefs are far more trustworthy and effective.When the HK media constantly exaggerated some negative news about mainland China and at the same time glorified Westerners every day. When the media blame the mainland Chinese for every problems in HK. How would that affect the thinking of average Hong Kongers. I think many people underestimate the power of the propaganda and media. At the beginning of the protests, many young kids who never been to China and don't have strong political views but in matter of days they become the core of the protests and riots. It is not only superior complex and tribalism that turn these youngsters to become rioters but the Hong Kong society has been infiltrated from top to bottom so that the US and Taiwan could easily incite hatred and violence.
I don't want to minimize the issue of superiority complex of some Hong Kong people or the issue of special privileges. But whatever superiority complex that Hong Kongers have, it isn't the main factor anymore as the rise of China has made sure that Hong Kongers aren't better. No matter how much they want to deny that. As for privileges, all privileges should be eliminated or reciprocal. However, these privileges were not granted to Hong Kongers alone but also to overseas Chinese and Taiwanese. The aim is to attract talents but the issue of fairness hasn't been addressed.
I do think the central government needs to take a hard line to force the Hong Kong government to allow mainland professionals to work in Hong Kong. Many of these medical and lawyer associations are anti-China anyway. So Hong Kong government doesn't have a good reason to delay the process of granting licenses to mainland professionals.
In order for China to fully integrate Hong Kong, central government must make Hkers truly want to be PRC citizens instead of only Hong kong citizens. Buying them off is often very unreliable.
As PRC rises, the central government needs to slowly rebuild the lost confidence of Chinese citizens, unfair policies catering to foreigners, hongkongers, Taiwanese devalues PRC citizenship and delegitimizes Chinese government by making CCP look weak. It also reduces pro-china media's own influence. As regular Hkers will rightly ask why they want to integrate with mainland when being hongkonger is clearly better.