It does makes sense to adopt this approach from the chinese perspective (perhaps this is why the chinese nuclear arsenal remained so pitifully low at 200-300 warheads for decades since the 1980s), but at least a stepped increase, such as occasioned by the various crises with the US or the Taiwan regime (1996 and 2001 comes to mind) that could have at least looked logical from the enemy's perspective, could have been adopted. Starting from the 2000s at least, various weapon systems either from chinese production or import would have been available that would still be tactically relevant today (with or without upgrades). A large part of US weapon systems are quite old (agewise) and repeatedly upgraded, so China could have done the same (aircraft, carriers, SSBNs could serve for decades with at least one or more upgrades during their life to keep them relevant).China started our military buildup later with 2 advantages:
1. It made us look unthreatening for as long as possible, which is the opposite of what the Soviets did. It allowed us to milk the US/West for money and technological cooperations when we were still weak and needed them. They weren't scared and thought we didn't even have MAD in place.
2. It prevents a buildup of legacy systems especially when Chinese military tech is moving so fast. At a time when Chinese military machines were qualitatively worse than their American counterparts, building a horde of them meant higher maintenance for things that because quickly obsolete. Waiting for technological parity or superiority to build in mass means you will eventually have a leaner, more effective force.
The danger to this would have been if the US realized too quickly and attempted to pull a Thucydides' trap before we were prepared. But that window is closed now because the instant China sensed hostile competition with the US, we quickly and heavily built up our nuclear forces with modern and advanced missiles, to prevent American adventurism.
Of course this is a could have should have (mulling over which this or that capability should have been procured in greater numbers is an interesting subject in itself of course) discussion that doesn't changes anything for the current situation. My point being, i'm not sure if China chose the rightest(?) path in regards to the buildup of it's military strength and if it's enough to face the current circumstances. I really hope it is.