When you go to punch a guy, you don't telegraph your intention through body language, foot positioning and cocking your arm when you're still 1.5m away from him. When you do those things, it is to try to scare him into backing down without a fight.They have surrounded it with bases and continue expanding the area with more and more bases to protect their investment. What more do you expect them to do exactly? You are not making a serious argument here. On the other side you have China conducting bullshit exercises and theatrics and nobody buys that nonsense. Nobody thinks China is serious about Taiwan and deterrence on it's own borders. The US has so many ships spread out around the world and China has so many ships concentrated on it's coasts that it could easily blockade Taiwan and collapse it's economy within a week without firing a single shot, yet they refuse to do so willingly despite the risk of them looking like a joke. If China was to go the US border and start building bases right on the US coast, the US would obliterate these bases without giving it a second thought, that's why nobody even dares to attempt to do such a thing. That is the difference between the US deterrence and China's lack of it.
When you have a dispute with someone (anyone), you don't straight up brandish your handgun whilst yelling crazily, you try discussion, reasoning, hypotheticals and other non-violent techniques first.
Because starting a physical fight is guaranteed to cost you something, and in many unforeseen ways. Like how the US has found through the 2 Trump presidencies and Covid.
This is why things are the way they are, and China isn't blasting countries left right and center. A counterexample is India, which does use violence against much smaller, weaker neighbors, but have they been anywhere near as successful as China in these 30 years?